At least I guess there was some correct information or real information from your relative as the UK and commonwealth forces never really had the tenacity of the US about their soldiers i.e. everyone comes home ideal (not sure where that tradition comes from). The first Australian soldier killed in Vietnam was going to be buried in the closest commonwealth grave site in Malaya as the government at the time saw it as too expensive to bring back and it caused quite an up roar. I think now from memory he was the first conscripted. Oddly enough I have seen many of these war grave dug up and removed during my last 15 years in Asia.
I often wonder how folks of today would deal with drudging around in tranches for a few years with trench feet and all other assorted ailments. I did 8 years in the Army and never earnt my money
Your Grandfather's comments about Manchester getting bombed is another of those what if type things now i.e. people now having to endure.
"The gratitude of every home in our Island, in our Empire, and indeed throughout the world, except in the abodes of the guilty, goes out to the British airmen who, undaunted by odds, unwearied in their constant challenge and mortal danger, are turning the tide of the World War by their prowess and b~ their devotion. Never in the field of human conflict was so much owed by so many to so few. All hearts go out to the fighter pilots, whose brilliant actions we see with our own eyes day after day; but we must never forget that all the time, night after night, month after month, our bomber squadrons travel far into Germany, find their targets in the darkness by the highest navigational skill, aim their attacks, often under the heaviest fire, often with serious loss, with deliberate careful discrimination, and inflict shattering blows upon the whole of the technical and war-making structure of the Nazi power. On no part of the Royal Air Force does the weight of the war fall more heavily than on the daylight bombers, who will play an invaluable part in the case of invasion and whose unflinching zeal it has been necessary in the meanwhile on numerous occasions to restrain. "
"There we stood, alone. Did anyone want to give in? Were we down-hearted? The lights went out and the bombs came down. But every man, woman and child in the country had no thought of quitting the struggle. London can take it. So we came back after long months from the jaws of death, out of the mouth of hell, while all the world wondered. When shall the reputation and faith of this generation of English men and women fail? I say that in the long years to come not only will the people of this island but of the world, wherever the bird of freedom chirps in human hearts, look back to what we've done and they will say "do not despair, do not yield to violence and tyranny, march straightforward and die if need be-unconquered." Now we have emerged from one deadly struggle-a terrible foe has been cast on the ground and awaits our judgment and our mercy."