I know Ray. when you get on a horse you are trusting your life to them. They are a lot stronger than you, even the little ones. Yet they will consent to carry you. The best lesson I was ever taught is 'You have absolutley no right to ride a horse and expect it to accept your control, until you can control yourself'! The book, play and hopefully the film War Horse has a passage where a German Soldier goes mad, when he hears the scream of injured horses, calling 'Why the horses? They didn't ask to be here!'