Strange but true My wife is from Dortmund and in the late 70s had a friend who went with her on a trip out in Clochester an old man noticed the german speek and said I`v been to Germany her friend said oh where and he replied Dortmund mostly she quiped up oh I live there where did you stay to which he replied oh we never stayed, we use to bomb the place.Also the only words spoken to the wife by my Grandfather was "I was a Guest of your country. taken prioner in france 1940 He died that night. some things never leave you.