This week I saw an ad on Milweb for something I've recently been looking for . Now we've had a bit going on over the last couple of weeks with a death in the family , a funeral and of course , work to keep going , so spare time has been somewhat scarce . Anyway , the ad was still there after a day or three so I contacted the seller to establish that the item was still available and it was . I went on to explain that unfortunately I wouldn't be able to get to him until this weekend as I had a close family funeral to attend but made it clear that I would buy and he indicated that this arrangement was acceptable and that I would call before the weekend to set a time and get final directions , leaving him my name , full home address , landline and work mobile phone numbers . The seller gave no indication that anyone else was interested or had called . I contacted him again yesterday , again apologising for the delay but explaining that I could be with him at a time to suit him today . The reply came " Ah , well , I got somebody else coming to look now and they're pretty keen to have it so I'll give you a ring about half eleven if he doesn't have it"
Needless to say I've heard nothing and I am a little miffed . I realise that I am somewhat old fashioned about these things and probably stuck in the past still trying my best to be courteous and well mannered in my dealings but if I agree something with a potential buyer then I stick to it , I don't say to the next caller ok you can have it then or is this acceptable in the present world ?