I guess that Steve will not have picked this one up yet, Barry - so perhaps I can have a go and he can come in later when he reads it!
All of our silver soldering and brazing experience really stems from our Model Engineering activities - and the construction of miniature steam locomotives in particular, and especially their copper boilers and boiler fittings. So much we have learned from reading and picking the brains of others who have had the experience and where we have learned from our own mistakes!.
We have only ever used propane as a source of heat - the copper boiler on our narrow gauge loco was heated sufficiently - out of doors - with three propane torches on it which did the job admirably. We are about two thirds through with the construction of a similar size copper boiler for a narrow gauge Koppel - about 6 or 7 inches in boiler diameter with a loco type firebox - when it was put aside in favour of the lorries - I hope to pick it up again one day! This was heated up with just one big propane torch but it was well bricked up to conserve the heat and that worked - although now I think we were brave to take that on with just the one torch! The professionals seem to use oxy-acetylene but we are not so equipped and have never used that.
Our favourite silver solder has been Easyflo No2- cleanliness and de-greasing of the items to be put together and a suitable flux is essential for a sound joint. I still have a reasonable stock of the original Easyflo No 2 which had cadmium included in it which seemed to aid easy use of it - but cadmium has now been banned from inclusion in this and the equivalent silver solder now is cadmium free. It is made by Johnson Matthey and they provide a flux suitable for use with it which comes in powder form and has to be mixed into a cream consistency before use. Just mix up sufficient for your immediate use.
The problem that can be encountered with multiple heatings of the same item is that there is a danger of earlier silver soldered joints on the same item melting and coming apart again - various silver solders are available with different melting points and it has been advocated that if you are doing multiple heatings of the same item so that you can attach other bits to it, then you use a silver solder with the highest melting temperature first of all so that for subsequent heatings, you do not have to take the temperature quite so high to get the silver solder to "flash over". I understand that the melting temperature of Easyflo No 2 is higher on a second heating of the same joint so you do have a small safety margin there.
However, I find that with a bit of care, the same solder - Easyflo No.2 can still be used for subsequent brazing on the same item - but make sure that any earlier silver soldered joints on that object are well fluxed up again. This is what I did on the two small assemblies for the Governor weights and pivot - when those two assemblies were put together, they were in such close proximity that there was certainly a danger of the earlier silver soldered joints coming apart again!
We have used this same method on brass, bronzes, copper and steel and have had no problems. We have found it to be a great method of attaching bits!
I am sure that others reading this will have had more experience than us and I shall be pleased to read any other contributions and have the benefit of their experience!
Tony