Well if it is any help, you're not the only one. Identical situation last week with our local old boy who travels around leaving envelopes and collecting later. I too told him about the campaign and it was news to him too. But he was delighted that NVA and HMVF were proactive. That guy along with many others put in a lot of effort at this time of year, and are happy to collect 5p or £5. in the same way as some of the forum members who have and will continue to collect at shows, sometimes for seemingly small amounts of donations. But they all add up.
But to your point Dave, you're wrong to think like that, OK? I often find myself doing things for a bit of a "FEELGOOD" factor. But in the case of the Beaches thing, it was a completely instinctive response, driven by respect and gratitude and I suppose partly by the momentum that is HMVF.
You didn't feel the need to tell him you'd written a cheque out for £400, did you? Of course not, but you were really chuffed to be able to tell him that a group of ethernet misfits linked by a whacky interest in 'the green machine' were busy facilitating some veterans' return to the beaches, weren't you?
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